I don’t know about you but I can be a
real grumbler. And the grumblier I feel and the more I actually grumble the
worst it all seems.
On the other hand there is incredible
power in positive thoughts, positive self talk and positive comments. About 10
years ago I trained for and completed a marathon with my oldest daughter . One
of the tools I used in the weeks of demanding training runs was positive
affirmations. I would notice myself start to think “Oh I’m so tired. I haven’t
run yet today. I need to do ____ miles. Oh I am dreading it. Oh it is going to
be so hard. Oh maybe I can skip tonight.” And I would stop those thought right
in their tracks and replace them with some made
up thoughts that honestly weren’t coming from my heart. “Oh I haven’t run
today. I can’t wait until I get to run. It’s going to be so rejuvenating. I am
going to love it!”
I know that sounds a little whacky but
after continually halting the negative thought and replacing it with a pretend
positive thought I actually began to bend my own thinking. I really did start
to look forward to and think positively about my training runs.
You too can use positive daily
affirmations to direct your thoughts, focus and beliefs. You can conquer your
past and present fears, more thoroughly enjoy your present and create a
wonderful future by harnessing the power of positive affirmations. Affirmations
can redirect your values, help formulate your goals and prepare you for a
variety of challenging situations.
In
general you can say your positive daily affirmations silently or aloud to
yourself. For our weekly challenge
however we are going to be saying them out loud with enthusiasm. I would
like you to write your affirmations on a
card ─ and carry it in your pocket, tape it to a mirror, or place it somewhere
where it is always visible to you. Repeat
your positive affirmations at intervals throughout your day, to reinforce
the positive belief and to maintain a positive state of mind.
You should state your positive daily
affirmations in the present tense, that is, use "I
am..." rather than "I will be..." Saying things in the present tense will program your subconscious mind
to believe that what you affirm is already fact. When the subconscious
believes that, it will start arranging for bringing what you affirm to you. In
other words, the subconscious will drive you to perform the actions needed to
live out what you affirm; and, acting thus, you will create the circumstances
that make them actually happen for you.
Another
important guideline in formulating your affirmations is to write them in the
positive state. Many people have the tendency to write affirmations in the
negative state (ie: I am not going to pig out on candy anymore!) ─ which
immediately defeats the purpose and the effectiveness of the affirmation.
Affirmations written from the negative perspective will never work.
To earn your daily 5 bonus points this coming week
you must write at least 3 positive affirmations, place them somewhere that you
will see them often and repeat them out loud and with enthusiasm several times
each day throughout the day (Do not forget all day and then blurt
them out 10 times before jumping in bed!)
A few ideas for positive affirmations :
1. I love to exercise! Moving my body relieves my
stress, calms my mind and is just plain fun.
2. I love fruits and vegetables. I notice when I eat
them I feel full of energy and life. They are my favorite treat.
3. I am in control of my health and wellness.
4. I have abundant energy, vitality and well-being.
5. I am always able to maintain my ideal weight of
_______.
6. I radiate good health.
7. I sleep soundly and peacefully.
8. I have abundant energy, vitality and well-being.
9. The more I honor my health and body the better I
feel.
10. I love clear clean water. It is my favorite drink
and I love sipping it all day long.
11. I am a sweet treat gourmet. I love waiting and
planning all week for one special dessert.
12. I am a record keeper. I enjoy writing down my
exercise and meals. It reminds me I control the destiny of my health.
Please feel free to share your positive
affirmations in the comment area of this blog. And have a positive week!